In the chaotic world of the 20s, choosing a career is one of the biggest decisions we face. This decade is perfect for exploring various paths to discover what we love, enjoy, and excel in. However, many young adults get stuck in a cycle of trial and error, never reaching a fulfilling destination. This is where the concept of “ikigai” comes into play.

Ikigai is a Japanese term that translates to “reason for being.” It suggests that everyone has a purpose in life, and it is our responsibility to uncover it. The word ‘Iki’ means ‘life,’ and ‘gai’ means ‘value’ or ‘worth.’

You may have met people in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond who are burdened with regrets and complaints. They often see themselves as victims because they haven’t found their purpose in life, leading to a seemingly meaningless existence. Avoiding this path requires finding your ikigai.

Discovering Your Ikigai

Finding your ikigai involves understanding four fundamental elements:

1.⁠ ⁠What You Love: Identify the activities and subjects that bring you joy.
2.⁠ ⁠What You Are Good At: Assess your skills and talents.
3.⁠ ⁠What the World Needs: Consider how your passions and skills can address the needs of the world.
4.⁠ ⁠What You Can Be Paid For: where your interests and the world’s needs intersect with earning opportunities.

Avoiding a Purposeless Life

To avoid a purposeless life, actively seek and engage in activities that align with your ikigai. This involves:

•⁠  ⁠Exploring New Things: Each experience helps you understand your true passions and strengths.
•⁠  ⁠Setting Goals: Define clear goals aligned with your ikigai and work towards them.
•⁠  ⁠Reflecting and Adapting: Regularly reflect on your experiences and be willing to adapt your path.

Finding your ikigai is a continuous journey of self-discovery and growth. Embrace the process, and let it guide you to a fulfilling and meaningful life.