Many people go to the grocery store without a list of things they are interested in buying. I have zero doubt that this has happened to you, maybe once. Just once! Me too; I struggled with this for a long time. You know what? The time is lost because it may even take you an hour to realize what you were looking for. Not only the time but also money. We spend a lot of unbudgeted money in the stores merely because we don’t know what we want, and we end up buying things we don’t really need.

It is hard to find out what we want in life. It always takes many people decades to realize that they were born for a specific purpose. You’ll find a medical bachelor guy pursuing art in drawing, painting, singing, dancing, becoming a movie actor, football player, etc., and you wonder how a Medical Doctor ends up being a professional dancer without even going to a dancing school. Another guy went for an education degree, and he ended up in business. I could mention many different career situations, but the good thing is that you already know them.

Yes, it’s not bad to have a trip around the earth, testing different diversities. We gain high experience through paths in many different domains, and the most important thing is the friendships we build and the connections we make; they are highly valuable. But on the other side of the river, we lose so much time walking around different jobs, studies, and professions while we never sit down and ask ourselves: What am I interested in? What could I enjoy doing? What do I do best?

To avoid this aimless wandering, it’s crucial to evaluate your personal interests, skills, and values. Understanding what you enjoy, where your strengths lie, and what matters most to you can provide clarity and direction.

Identify Your Interests: What activities or subjects captivate you? What do you enjoy doing in your free time? Your interests are often the first clue to your true calling.

Assess Your Skills: Consider your strengths and abilities. What tasks come naturally to you? What do others frequently ask for your help with? Reflecting on your skills can help you understand where you can excel and make a meaningful impact.

Clarify Your Values: Your values are the principles and beliefs that guide your decisions and actions. What matters most to you in life? Is it creativity, helping others, financial security, or something else? Knowing your values can help you align your career and life choices with what you find most meaningful.

By understanding your interests, skills, and values, you can create a roadmap for your life that is both purposeful and fulfilling. This self-awareness helps you make informed decisions, stay focused, and navigate your path with confidence.

Take the time to reflect and plan. Your future self will thank you.